Was It Really A Sign?
Question: God spoke to me through a man a few years ago. He told me that he knew that I wanted a boyfriend, but he was talking to me like it was going to be more than that. He said I was going to get married really quick. The one thing he said was that my future husband couldn't see me. Ever since he said that I have been wondering what he meant by that. Could you please explain this to me if you can.
Response: What an interesting conversation you had with this man a few years ago! This too would leave me stumped in the moment as to what he meant. I can’t tell you for sure what was meant by that statement, but I can share a bit about what I know the Bible tells us about love and relationships, and maybe that will help.
Firstly, I want you to know that it is totally okay to be single and to even want to be single. This is a time to truly know who you are, what you want in your personal life, what your goals are, and what you would like to see in a future spouse. If you are tired of being single and would like to move on to the next stage of life, Dating is a great way to explore new relationships and see if they align with your life. When you are dating and throughout whatever relationships come out of that, keeping God at the forefront of the relationship will not only strengthen your personal faith, but will help you both grow spiritually as a couple.
This man that you spoke with is not wrong, there is a man out there for you that God has set aside as your future husband. This is great news! God knows who He wants you to be with and He will let you know when the time comes as well if the man you are with is truly “the one.” God has created marriage to be a special relationship between a man and a woman and there is a special someone out there for you who will be your perfect partner in this life. When and where you will meet is all a part of God’s master plan for your life, and there’s no way for us to know those details for sure. For now, continue to live your best life and let God shine through you. If you focus on your love for God, it will overflow onto others and the right people and connections will be brought into your life.
My advice to you would be to try not to stress too much about what this man said to you a few years ago. Continue to strengthen your relationship with God, and as people are brought into your life pray for guidance that you would be able to know how to move forward. Keep an open mind and an open heart, and I know God will provide the answers you are seeking.
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